“The best of friends, I still believe, totally love and support and trust each other, and bare to each other the secrets of their souls, and run—no questions asked—to help each other, and tell harsh truths to each other when they must be told.
“But we needn't agree about everything (only
12-year-old girl friends agree about everything) to tolerate each
other's point of view. To accept without judgment. To give and to take without
ever keeping score. And to be there, as I am for them and as they are for me,
to comfort our sorrows, to celebrate our joys.” —American essayist, journalist,
poet, and psychoanalysis researcher Judith Viorst, “Friends, Good Friends—and
Such Good Friends,” Redbook, October 1977
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