Saturday, July 20, 2024

Quote of the Day (Judith Guest, on ‘The Cards You’re Dealt’ in Life)

“I think living the blessed life is the luck of the draw. You don’t get control over the cards you’re dealt—whether it’s fatal illness, death, accidents—but we do have control over how we face those odds, how we play the cards. Some people with awful cards can be successful because of how they deal with the tragedies they’re handed, and that seems courageous to me. That’s what interests me, more than the fate of the blessed life.”—Ordinary People novelist Judith Guest quoted by Jeannine Ouellette, “Judith Guest: Ordinary Person,” Secrets of the City (Minneapolis-St. Paul), Oct. 19, 2004

The image accompanying this post comes from the 1980 film adaptation of Ms. Guest’s Ordinary People. Judd Hirsch plays a compassionate psychiatrist and Timothy Hutton is his patient, a teenager who exemplifies the courage that the novelist pays tribute to: finding a way to come to terms with the tragedy that threatens to consume his family.

Friday, July 19, 2024

Photo of the Day: Englewood ‘Night at the Market,’ Bergen County, NJ

Last night, my hometown, Englewood, NJ, closed off a couple of portions of its downtown to hold a “block party.” This year’s gathering—a celebration of the city’s 125th anniversary—featured live music and food vendors along East Palisade Avenue from 5 pm to 11 pm.

Relieved that the heat and humidity from earlier in the week had dissipated with the thunderstorm from the night before, I was among the residents who roamed around this stretch. I took this photo not long before twilight.

Quote of the Day (Sheryl Lee Ralph, on Busting Rocks to ‘Create My Road’)

“I had to bust rocks to create my road. And now that road is there for my kids and other people's kids to travel. They might look at those broken rocks by the side of the road and say, ‘Wait a minute. If we melt that rock, we’ll have four more lanes.’” —Emmy-winning actress-singer Sheryl Lee Ralph quoted by Harriette Cole, “Nothing But Class,” AARP: The Magazine, August/September 2023

The image accompanying this post, showing Sheryl Lee Ralph at the pre-Oscar party held by Black Enterprise, was taken Feb. 23, 2008, by eternalconceptspr.

TV Quote of the Day (‘The Bob Newhart Show,’ In Which Bob Flashes an Unlikely Bit of Machismo)

Emily Hartley [played by Suzanne Pleshette]: “Bob, that boy just winked at me.”

Dr. Robert “Bob” Hartley [played by Bob Newhart]: “You want me to beat him up?”— The Bob Newhart Show, Season 2, Episode 17, “The Modernization of Emily,” original air date Jan 12, 1974, teleplay by Charlotte Brown, directed by Peter Baldwin

In the Seventies, my two favorite sitcoms were All in the Family and The Mary Tyler Moore Show. Whenever I happened to watch their later mainstay in CBS’ Saturday night lineup, The Bob Newhart Show, I would chuckle but not guffaw, as I did with its two powerhouse lead-ins.

Since then, I have gone back and watched episodes of this six-season series, and its gentle, understated tone has worn well with time, reflecting the sure comic instincts of its star.

After six nominations, Bob Newhart finally won an Emmy Award, at age 84, with his hilarious guest appearance as “Professor Proton,” a former science TV show host turned children's party entertainer, on The Big Bang Theory.

The entertainment industry lost one of its greats yesterday with the passing of Newhart. His comic style— deadpan, mild-mannered, without an ounce of meanness—reflected, by all accounts, the personality of this beloved star.

Thursday, July 18, 2024

Quote of the Day (Roger Angell, on Pro Sports Teams and Their Fans)

“It is foolish and childish, on the face of it, to affiliate ourselves with anything so insignificant and patently contrived and commercially exploitative as a professional sports team. What is left out of this calculation, it seems to me, is the business of caring — caring deeply and passionately, really caring — which is a capacity or an emotion that has almost gone out of our lives.” —Baseball writer and chief New Yorker fiction editor Roger Angell (1920-2022), Five Seasons: A Baseball Companion (1977)

I took the image accompanying this post at a night game at Yankee Stadium in late August 2014. That season, the Bronx Bombers finished second in the American League East, with their worst record since 1992.

But fans like me came out that night because we knew this would be one of our final opportunities to see “The Captain,” Derek Jeter, in the last of his 20 seasons as a Hall of Famer with the Yankees.

Professional sports have grown even more “commercially exploitative” in the half-century since Roger Angell wrote the above. The miracle is that they still retain such a powerful hold on their fan base.

It just goes to show that, in its imperviousness to reason, rooting for one’s favorite team is a form of faith. With baseball resuming following the All-Star break, teams still in the hunt for the postseason hope to reward those fans in their staunch belief.

Wednesday, July 17, 2024

Quote of the Day (Virginia Woolf, on a Summer’s Night Talk)

“It was a summer’s night and they were talking, in the big room with the windows open to the garden, about the cesspool.” —English novelist-essayist Virginia Woolf (1882-1941), Between the Acts (1941)

Tuesday, July 16, 2024

Quote of the Day (Wilfrid Sheed, on Political Conventions)

“Well, you know about conventions. No matter how dull they try to make themselves, to show how America has truly come of age, they still have all the silly excitement of kids’ birthday parties. If you've happened to miss one, the next closest thing would be wandering around a county fair with a straw hat and a jug of moonshine.”— English-born American novelist and essayist Wilfrid Sheed (1930-2011), People Will Always Be Kind (1973)

For delegates at conventions, I imagine that Wilfrid Sheed’s description here still captures the giddy feeling of getting together with others of your tribe cheering for a candidate. But so much else has changed, for both attendees and television viewers.

Sheed didn’t know it back in 1973, but the central notion of conventions for the 140 years to that point—a quadrennial gathering in which a party would truly decide on its nominee and running mate—was already coming to an end.

Dismayed by the outcome of their Chicago convention in 1968, when party grandees chose a nominee, Hubert Humphrey, who had not entered a single primary, the Democrats had instituted by 1972 new rules that made primaries the principal means of selecting nominees, and limited delegates’ ability to back off pre-convention declarations of loyalty.

With party leaders’ role in choosing nominees vastly diminished, it would be all over but the shouting when delegates got to the convention and the TV cameraswhich had aired for all the world to see the Democrats' disorder inside and outside the confab in '68whirred once again.

That same year, the Republicans amplified their 1968 model for how conventions would be run—" a picture of a buttoned-down organization,” headed by "law-and-order" nominee Richard Nixon, as recalled in Don Gonyea’s August 2018 NPR retrospective.

Not only would films of the candidate now be aired in prime time, but TV networks would receive advance copies of minute-by-minute convention-night scripts already approved by party leaders.

Conventions were now becoming extended, prime-time political commercials rather than events where party futures were decided—marketing opportunities that reflected the experiences of Nixon advisers H.R. Haldeman (a longtime J. Walter Thompson executive) and Roger Ailes (whose work as the candidate’s executive producer for television was chronicled in Joe McGinniss’ The Selling of the President 1968).

This year’s GOP convention already looks like it will follow this recent model. As for the Democrats—well, we’ll see if they remain bound by the rules they instituted a half century ago, or if they will remind viewers, after so much time, of the Will Rogers wisecrack, “I am not a member of any organized party — I am a Democrat.” 

The image accompanying this post, showing the Republican National Convention in Miami Beach, Florida, on Aug. 22, 1972, is from the Nixon White House Photographs, 1/20/1969 - 8/9/1974 series, in the White House Photo Office Collection (Nixon Administration), 1/20/1969 - 8/9/1974.