“There is, of course, a special problem presented by
the type of person who looks well even when he doesn’t feel well, and who is
not likely to be believed if he says he doesn't feel well. In such cases, the
sufferer should say, ‘I look well, but I don't feel well.’ While this usage has
the merit of avoiding the troublesome words ‘bad’ and ‘badly,’ it also has the
disadvantage of being a negative statement. If a person is actually ill, the
important thing is to find out not how he doesn’t feel, but how he does feel.
He should state his symptoms more specifically — ‘I have a gnawing pain here,
that comes and goes,’ or something of the sort. There is always the danger, of
course, that one's listeners will cut in with a long description of how they feel; this can usually be avoided
by screaming.”—American humorist and cartoonist James Thurber (1894-1961), The Owl in the Attic and Other Perplexities (1931)
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